Denial: I don't need to wean her just yet. This is so healthy for both of us. It's completely normal that my eighteen-month-old not only asks to nurse, but tells me when to switch sides. And informs me when "I done." And it's such a wonderful bonding experience, I totally love it. Still.
Anger: What am I, a prize-winning sow? WTH is wrong with this kid!? She still doesn't sleep through the night! I can't do this sh*t anymore! I'm gonna cut her off cold-turkey. I. AM. DONE.
Bargaining: How about a cookie; wouldn't you rather eat a cookie? Do you want to watch TV? Let's read a book first, then do nur-nurs. Don't cry! How about mommy just holds you? How about I hold you and you hold the cookie? Ok, mommy will let you for just one minute. I'm putting on the timer. Ok, two minutes and mommy gets a cookie.
Depression: OMG, this kid is never going to wean. I will never again have a night of uninterrupted sleep. Why can't she be easy like my other two? This is so not fair. I want my boobs back.
Acceptance: I guess I just can't force the issue--she'll eventually stop when she's ready. It's not like she'll still be nursing when she's in kindergarten. She'll get bored of it soon. This too shall pass.
:) This is awesome! So true and you could probably replace breastfeeding with any attachment parenting activity. LOL Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks, Jill!
ReplyDeleteI freaking love you. Still nursing my 2 year old. MY TWO YEAR OLD. I never thought i would be that Mommy- my other 4 kids stopped by 12months! This one...ohMAHword, she is sooo attached to it- yelling,"eat boobs" and, like your little one, says, "this one done, now that one". You made me crackup! Awesome post:)
ReplyDeleteThanks! This is one of my favorite posts of mine--probably cause I'm still living it. EVERY. DAY. There are not enough cookies, ya know? We're on about 20 months now and The Geel it's still waking 4+ times a night to nurse. Arrgh!!! this, too, shall pass....
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DeleteHahaha super awesome I love it! I'm a mom of five so just imagined having 5kids plus my husband and 9yrs of nursing. LOL Thanks for sharing!!!!
ReplyDeleteAlso I hope you don't mind but I've shared your site on my blog.(: I think it's brave of you to speak on this subject and it helps so many other Moms to know that it's perfectly normal. Thanks again! Pray you have a wonderful day!!!
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